Child development experts explain the video in which a mother who had migrated had separated from her son and how she met him again. A lot of emotional breakdowns you have to face when you lost someone whom you love the most. Moreover, it is more painful when she/he refuses to talk to you. Sudden separation is complicated to handle, especially at an unknown place. Migration, outing and sometimes fun picnic may be painful for parents when they get separated from their babies.
One More Incident: Development Experts Explain
Reyes Mejia, at Texas, got separated from his son, he explained the ACLU of Texas that he had noticed his son sleeping on the floor. He showed evidence and completed some formalities to take his son with him. Hence, his son was sleeping, and the police suggested he not to disturb him and go for whatever work they want to do. Even, Reyes thought the same. He left his boy sleeping over there. But he could not found his son there when he came back. Police had taken him to Michigan.
At Michigan, he was in foster care. From there Reyes Mejia managed to have communication overcall with his child. But his boy was profoundly angry and avoided the conversation. In an ICE office, Michigan, father, and son reunited later on two weeks. Hence the child was under five years, and judge San Diego had ordered fast track reunification.
Chandra Gosh: Development Experts Explain
Chandra Ghosh, childhood trauma expert and associate director of the Child Trauma Research Program, at San Francisco, has explained that in the video, the child was looking very depressed. We cannot say anything until the information about the parent-child relationship. How secure is the bond between parents and children? You never know that a child who can not speak; he/she can express emotions through actions and eyes. So, understanding non-verbal communication is just in the case of infants or small children.
Chandra added that parents can understand and feel the emotions of kids by their actions. For example, if your kid pushes you, he wants to be with you, and he wants you to pamper him. Imagine how bad it is when you get sudden separation at the same time you have to be very strong from outside. From, inside, you are worried about your kid, but you have to explain and understand a lot of things to get your child back with you.
Metal Support And Help:
In such a condition, you and your child both need emotional support from the family. When your child separated from you, even for two or three days. Children lost the trust of their parents. Children will think that you will leave them alone even when you are with them in an amusement park or a picnic. First, parents should go through mental health treatment to heal their children emotionally and mentally. If you need, concern psychiatrists as well. Psychotherapeutics support will help you to recover from anxiety, distress, behavioral issues and trauma of separation.